Our Hotwives

My beautiful HW Marie has surprised me through the years with some of the guys she dated. She’s into fitness and she only want to be with guys who are like minded. So when she first started dating, all of the guys where mostly white, young, tall, fit and very handsome. Some of them she had sex with some she didn’t but she definitely had a type. Then one day she went out on a impromptu date with a frumpy looking, young plutonic friend. One thing led to another and they ended up having a great night of sex. That’s when it seem like she stopped looking for her cookie cutter type of of metrosexuals. She was adamant that she will never date an older man but now she has been with 2 guys old enough to be her father. One of the older guys I thought there wasn’t a chance in Hell she would do anything with him. He looked like he was going to have a stroke while trying to have sex with her. There is a guy she grew up with that is not in her league. She would never give him a second look if she didn’t already know him. He’s short and obnoxious yet she loves to have sex with him. There was a super tall, super skinny guy shy guy that she love to tease. She really brought him out of his shell. But again he was someone that I would have never picked for her. Marie is still very picky with the guys she date. But every now and then she surprise me with the guys she had sex with.

My wife, (blonde), when single and now as a Hotwife has always been drawn to tall, handsome, well hung muscular black men and to some degree surprised she married me a white guy.

One item on her Hotwife bucket list that surprises me is her desire to bed a highly financially successful/famous white guy such as Tom Brady or a movie/television star

Other than that she is firmly hooked on black men

I know my mood changes with respect to who would turn me on. All based on life experiences etc. I would expect her to do the same.
It isn't hard to realize that the most handsome might not be the easiest to click with.

tit4atat wrote: ↑

Tue Jul 23, 2019 12:05 pm

I know my mood changes with respect to who would turn me on. All based on life experiences etc. I would expect her to do the same.
It isn't hard to realize that the most handsome might not be the easiest to click with.

The first few handsome guys were terrible in bed. They sex was so bad that we gave up on the HW lifestyle. Than she had mind blowing sex with her young, frumpy, plutonic friend and later on with an older guy. So she became a lot more open to other types of guys. She still mostly date guys who are tall and handsome. The last guy she was with shocked me. I guess that’s why I asked this question. He was much older than her and he wasn’t handsome and/or very fit.

I have always surprised by the guys she lets fuck her, since we got married she has never been with another white guy, not that she went with many whilst she was dating, we are now in Europe so basically her attraction is towards Black/ Magreb and African guys, but she likes Professional guys Doctors/ Lawyers ETC but she also enjoys loves the thug types who completely treat her like a typical white slut.

I was at first, but now I kinda know her "temporary type" so not so much anymore.

Has she been back together with her BF and his brother?

C always prefers men who are "good looking with a big dick" as she puts it. One time she surprised me when we met this guy through AFF. I didn't think she'd go for him because he was pretty average in the looks department. After meeting and chatting for a while, she agreed to play and we got a hotel room together. He fucked her VERY well with his big cock. He was a military officer with a dominant streak and she is definitely attracted to those type of men.

Sure, I have been surprised on occasions. I think that most wives who has recreational sex with other men will find some more appealing than her husband would anticipate. When she first agreed she wished to do what I had encouraged for about a year, it didn't occur to me she might be attracted to certain men much younger than her (then) 28 years; but she soon after began an three-year affair with a 19-year old college student, which she again repeated with another that age about three years ago. A couple of other older men she has had sex with wouldn't have been my idea of men who would have appealed to her. She is an unusually attractive woman who should have no problem finding similarly attractive men, but age and physical attributes are less important to her than their personalities and compatibility.

She is now 32. I don't have a problem with any of that for the reason I want her to enjoy having sex with other men. So, if it's good for her, her follow-up narratives about her experiences and excitation when fucking are good for me. That's what we think is the right attitude for an open marriage, as one-sided as ours is.

~ Des

My wife is almost too predictable in her preferences. Big in all ways, generally younger cowboy types with a physically dominant streak. Men she can toy with intellectually.

It does surprise me as she also will say she was surprised at who she picked.
Those stories get me the most. (This occurred before we were married)

Her first boyfriend that she had sex with was in the church rock and roll band. He decided
he had to move away to help out his parents. They had only had sex a few times.

The drummer, Ed, from the band called her and asked her to go to the church Christmas party. She wanted something to do and she would see other friends at the party. Someone put whisky in the punch, which they all liked, and they had a good time. Ed took her to his apartment and made her a blue colored drink. It was really pretty and tasted really good.

She said soon after having the blue drinks, their clothes just exploded off, and they were screwing on the sofa. He was much better at fucking.

Then she says - I didn't even like that guy. I don't know why I did it.

Yes I am. Through the years she has fucked a variety of different types of men. No specific type. Right now she is with a 52 year old bull. Would have never guessed she would be interested in him, but she is smitten with him

My husband was VERY surprised by who I ended up liking most in the lifestyle. I began to realize that what attracted most to me sexually was the opposite of what I have at home. My husband is sweet, gentle, caring, loving, a provider, a good father.. I find myself drawn toward bad boy tatted felonious thug types who take control and have no fear of hurting my feelings, and of course, a big dick (8+).

I was surprised by the first man she chose. She had been advertising as a married woman who wanted to date, and had been vetting a number of men who responded.

Then she shocked me when I came home from a family trip by telling me she had gotten laid by a man she knew who had a reputation as a womanizer. She called him "The Player." For him she was just another notch on his bedpost. She even later called him a male slut. Yet he got her hotwife cherry.

I used to be slightly surprised but soon learned that she saw things her way.

My wife once took a lover who was underendowed. She later quipped, "What he lacked in size, he made up for with enthusiasm."

My wife has always been attracted to the bad boy type, like so many women are. Every man she has been with since we’ve been married, and most before I knew her I would describe as assholes. Yet when it comes to wanting hot sex with someone that’s her choice. It’s ironic in a way, because if I were choosing her lovers it would be someone I could respect and get along with who would treat her with respect and put her needs first. I wonder how many of us are in similar situations.

My wife has always been attracted to the bad boy type, like so many women are. Every man she has been with since we’ve been married, and most before I knew her I would describe as assholes. Yet when it comes to wanting hot sex with someone that’s her choice. It’s ironic in a way, because if I were choosing her lovers it would be someone I could respect and get along with who would treat her with respect and put her needs first. I wonder how many of us are in similar situations.

Though i have been surprised a few times by Bri for the guy she has chose to fuck because of their personality similar to me or sometimes the types of guys she has generally no inclination towards but the most surprising one will be when she fucked a 70 year old in front of me though that grandpa was not his A game but had a massive cock & made my beloved wife cum a few times. At the end all 3 of us were surprised of his performance. The bounus point was he was so much into dirlt talking that helped Bri a lot in orgasms & in the end had a handsahke with me & said she is hot else i am unable to get it up at this age.

I'm not surprised at all that my wife's FWB is a very big, muscular guy. She has never hid her attraction to guys like The Rock and Jason Momoa. In the past she has told me that as a teenager, she dated an older body builder with a huge (her word) cock. No idea how big her FWB's cock is, but she is certainly happy with him.

I certainly am surprised by some of the men my wife goes with. we learned a long time ago that she is in charge of picking the men

My wife has strayed outside her “type” couple of times over the years. She likes confident, average or better looking, with big dicks that they know how to use. She leans towards black guys, but not so much for “thug” type. And not for any real dire need for the supposed taboo aspect of a blonde hotly with a black guy. Just that her luck with them has been better. More sexually aggressive, while still respectful. More ability to stay hard and even do some repeat after just a little rest.

But one time we met with a timid white guy who was clearly in awe of her and she took him to the room and fucked him anyway. She said she thought he deserved it, after actually showing up when he was clearly a bit freaked out. She’s orgasmic enough that she still got off even though he was quite small. When he left, he was as appreciative as I’ve ever seen anyone be.

Another time we were at Hedo and she surprised me by saying that she wanted to fuck these two older Italian gents. They were average looking and not particularly well endowed, but I think she saw an opportunity for a readymade threesome and they were giving her smiles all afternoon on the beach. Plus she liked their accent and seemed to really enjoy the serious language barrier. One of them must hve became intimidated and eventually just stood to the side. The other was ok though and got her off at least once. She was happy with it because she took the initiative and checked a couple boxes like “international sex” off.

isinlarsa wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 16, 2024 12:52 pm

I was surprised by the first man she chose. She had been advertising as a married woman who wanted to date, and had been vetting a number of men who responded.

Then she shocked me when I came home from a family trip by telling me she had gotten laid by a man she knew who had a reputation as a womanizer. She called him "The Player." For him she was just another notch on his bedpost. She even later called him a male slut. Yet he got her hotwife cherry.

In the end that is what many of us are attracted to. Even though we SAY we don't want that, we actually do. I believe it's on a deep primal level. We can't help it. The hotwife can allow herself to follow primal urges because we have a good man at home who will accept and love us after our adventure is fulfilled. Not being a hotwife, most women won't go near that kind of man because we know where it leads.. great sex, but nothing else, and potentially single motherhood.

I was in a hotwife marriage for 15 yrs in my first marriage..not close to cuck. Eventually it turned in to swinging also. I live in the gym go to the dojo..not a little frail dude....However, yes ...that girl was hotter than 40 damn its...and chose to F@#$ some real ... well, I never called them men...Made her happy tho...May she R.I.P.

mrs_hotwifecplsa wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 18, 2024 7:51 pm

isinlarsa wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 16, 2024 12:52 pm

I was surprised by the first man she chose. She had been advertising as a married woman who wanted to date, and had been vetting a number of men who responded.

Then she shocked me when I came home from a family trip by telling me she had gotten laid by a man she knew who had a reputation as a womanizer. She called him "The Player." For him she was just another notch on his bedpost. She even later called him a male slut. Yet he got her hotwife cherry.

In the end that is what many of us are attracted to. Even though we SAY we don't want that, we actually do. I believe it's on a deep primal level. We can't help it. The hotwife can allow herself to follow primal urges because we have a good man at home who will accept and love us after our adventure is fulfilled. Not being a hotwife, most women won't go near that kind of man because we know where it leads.. great sex, but nothing else, and potentially single motherhood.

MRS HWC
- It seems a lot like women denying reading Harlequin Romances and then getting caught reading them due to the cover art.